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We Interrupt This Meme to Bring You…

The conclusion of my 101 in 1001 project! Another meme! From 2008! If you’re still reading, your meme apology card is in the mail. Ok, I haven’t sent it yet. I’ll get around to it. Like this project wrap-up. Which actually ended last Wednesday, but as you’ll know if you’ve been reading here for a while, being timely isn’t my strong suit. However, I am excellent at making lists. And surprisingly, at completing some of the items on them.

Here’s a rundown of the 35 that I actually finished before the deadline. Yes, 35% of them! Which I will explain later when we get to the ones that I didn’t finish.

  • Flying first class- thanks to my business trips, I managed to become a frequent flyer, complete with the perks of first class seating, multiple times. Twix bars and free cocktails are always a win.
  • Visit Louise in NYC- After six years away from Manhattan, one of those business trips actually brought me to the Big Apple and I spent four glorious days happy houring and theatre going after hours with one of my oldest pals.
  • Get my U.S. Passport- done.
  • Go back to New Orleans- After this made the list, it just so happened that I was offered a job with a boss based in New Orleans. Which means I’ve been back for 11 weeks since it was listed.
  • Go to the Waffle House- My first achievement, and so delicious.
  • Buy a digital camera- Back in 2008, this was an upgrade. Now I barely use it, thanks to my iPhone. The times, they have a’changed.
  • Join a CSA- Loved mine last summer, but didn’t subscribe this year due to my travel schedule. I’m glad to share, but it stung having to give away so many delicious veggies while I was on the road.
  • Own a classic piece of Tiffany’s jewelry- the ex bought me pearl earrings. I loved them. I lost one. I can’t have nice things. At least he was a jerk, so there were no sentimental attachments when the earring went missing.
  • Subscribe to the Sunday NY Times- good journalism isn’t free, people. And yes, I can read it online. But subscriptions pay for journalists to keep working. I’ll get the paper version. Besides, with a pot of coffee, the newspaper in bed is the best thing that happened to Sundays.
  • Get a Blackberry- Three years ago, my Blackberry was my dream phone. Now, you’d have to pry my iPhone out of my cold, dead hands.
  • Have an inspirations bulletin board- one at work, one at home, and my new toy, Pinterest.
  • Host a dinner party- Not precisely dinner, but I did throw a Southern grub fiesta on New Year’s Day (using FIVE crock pots) to ring in the new year with friends and a wide variety of hangovers.
  • Convince my boss to let me telework- It’s not part of my regular schedule yet, but I’ve done it for bad weather, illness, and the occasional project that required my home computer. Permanence is only three months away!
  • Create a personal “altar” space- I like the idea of somewhere quiet to sit and reflect. I gathered some candles, some photos that I love, and a few books that make me think and piled them by some lounging pillows. I don’t use it as much as I should to find some peace- it’s so far away from my laptop.
  • Plant flowers that actually grow- I’m no gardener. But last year, after a haphazard dash of seeds in the yard, I did manage to grow a feast of zinnias with almost no effort. The package said that they were supposed to be 18″ tall. Mine were 36″.
  • Get new contacts- done. But now it needs to be done again.
  • Get a professional massage- I’ve still not done a full-body massage. It seems weird to pay a stranger to rub me while I’m naked. I’m not a prude, I’m just not used to paying for the service. But I did get a lovely upper body massage when I got my first professional facial.
  • Go to the dentist- After 8 years of stalling (due to a lack of insurance and money, not a fear of dentists or lack of desire), I went and got all of my catch-up work done and have my regularly scheduled cleanings like a good little girl who plans to chew with her own teeth for as long as possible.
  • Watch a sunrise- Cocoa Beach, FL.
  • Watch a sunset- Dozens, but the most memorable was in New Orleans.
  • Submit my writing 12 times to journals- We are wayyyyy past the twelve submissions mark here. At least count on my Duotrope account, I’ve submitted at least 82 times. (By the way, if you are disorganized and submitting things to literary magazines, Duotrope is your new best friend. You’re welcome).
  • Update my 100 things about me- done. And it could probably stand to be done again.
  • Take a creative writing workshop- Not only did I take a few local workshops, I attended Bread Loaf  in 2009. It completely changed my life, and I hope to attend again.
  • Make a crocheted blanket- my first niece received her very own lavender baby blanket, made by me. My sister is forcing her to love it best.
  • Take a sewing class- I made my very own throw pillow and brushed up on those sewing machine skills.
  • Publish another chapbook- Miracle of miracles, it will be coming out in August 2011. Final edits are in progress.
  • Return my library books- They were wildly overdue. They’re back and safe in their library home now.
  • Try being a  vegetarian for a week- Another example of changing times. While I haven’t given up meat entirely (I love a steak), I very rarely eat any, besides seafood and even when I do, it’s at a restaurant. Living alone, I don’t really cook it at home. And I’m in no danger of starving to death.
  • Go to book club more than once- Twice! And both times I actually finished the assigned book. The book club fell off the radar a bit, but I enjoyed it while it lasted.
  • Start and keep a one-sentence daily journal- One of the better things that I got out of this project. Keeping an actual diary overwhelmed me from a writing perspective, so I got a big day book with dates and full pages. I just jot the year and a sentence or two to describe the day. Looking back on the last three years as the days roll around is a great reminder of how far I’ve come.
  • Meet an internet friend in person- Oh 2008! Aren’t you quaint? If you run into me with anyone these days and ask how we met, 8 times out of 10, it will be on the internet. Twitter mostly. And I got to meet Green Yogurt on my trip to San Francisco! Lora, you’re next.
  • Go on a picnic- Last summer, BC and I dragged some Middle Eastern food (and a few covert beers…. shhh) to the park and spent the 4th of July people-watching and stuffing our faces.
  • Teach a class- A major part of my new job involves hosting trainings- online and in person. I taught 200 people how to use Twitter a few years ago at a conference.
  • Get back in touch with my penpal- Facebook finally spread to Australia, so I can look at pictures of her beautiful baby every day if I like. I’d still like to write more pen-and-paper letters.
  • Send and receive a Postcrossing postcard- I love postcards. I sent mine and got a postcard from Romania of Dracula’s castle! Very cool.

What didn’t I do and why? More to come….

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2008: Year in Review

Better late than never, the 2008 year-in-review post, using the same format as last year’s:

  • What did you do in 2008 that you’d never done before? 
    • Scheduled and cancelled a wedding 
    • Visited Norfolk, VA, Oklahoma City, and Cleveland
    • Took a new position by email without having to interview 
    • Took on 101 goals in 1001 days
    • Sent postcards with PostCrossing
  • Did you keep your new years’ resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
    • Nope. I didn’t really keep any of them, but I did make more. (Post to follow) 
  • Did anyone close to you give birth?
    • Three of my co-workers had new babies in six weeks- it was a very fertile year. And my cousin is pregnant again, but the baby won’t be here until this year. 
  • Did anyone close to you die?
    • Nope.
  • What countries did you visit?
    • None
    • I’m hoping to change that in 2009 if I get my finances in order this year. 
  • What would you like to have in 2009 that you lacked in 2008?
    • More interest in exploring Pittsburgh as a tourist in my town. 
    • Fresh veggies as often as possible, and home-cooked meals too.
    • A car and a driver’s license.
  • What dates from 2008 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
    • Obama’s election was pretty unbeatable as a milestone for the year.
    • I expected to put the wedding date that never happened, and then realized I had to think of what the date was - wow, that was a milestone moment in itself.
  • What was your biggest achievement of the year?
    • Getting a new position at work based on my professional reputation without applying.
    • Publishing my chapbook. 
  • What was your biggest failure?
    • Trying to force an unhappy relationship into being a happy one all by myself.  
  • Did you suffer illness or injury?
  • What was the best thing you bought?
  • Where did most of your money go?

                         Bills, bills, bills

  • Whose behavior merited celebration?
    • My ex mother-in-law, who handled the end of the engagement with grace and wit.
    • My sister, the Hippie, who was the family member who I felt most supported by when it all fell apart.
    • The American voter for choosing hope over fear.
  • Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed? 
    • The ex-fiance’ who managed to make me feel guilty for his lying and cheating ways. 
    • Sarah Palin 
    • My ex-boss, who turned on me the minute she found out I had a new job.
  • What did you get really, really, really excited about?
    • The reading the night of my chapbook release.
    • Shopping on Etsy
  • What song will always remind you of 2008? 
    • Um…. probably the “Yes, We Can” song by Will.I.Am 
  • Compared to this time last year, are you:
    • Happier or sadder: HAPPIER
    • Older or wiser: WISER
    • Thinner or fatter: THINNER
    • Richer or poorer: RICHER
  • What do you wish you’d done more of?
    • Walking around or sitting outside in the sunshine
    • Visiting my family
    • Writing short stories and working on my novel
  • What do you wish you’d done less of?
    • Reading crappy airport novels instead of the good books I own and haven’t read 
    • Throwing up from my gall bladder drama
  • What did you want and get?
    • A digital camera for Christmas (as soon as I figure out how to upload photos, this blog goes photo-tastic!) 
    • Tiffany pearl earrings (a very generous gift from an admirer… more to come on that as well)
    • A Blackberry
  • What did you want and did not get?
    • To work from home
    • An iPod
  • How did you spend Christmas?
    • Christmas Eve with my Tennessee family 
    • Christmas day taking over the cooking duties from my British grandma for the first time- a standing rib roast to die for and permanent assignment as the holiday cook. 
  • Did you fall in love in 2008?
    • Nope. I fell out of love, into curiosity, into desire, and into like.  
  • Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
    • Not that I can think of. I’ve moved beyond hate for now. 
  • What was the best book you read?  The Poisonwood Bible
  • What was your greatest musical discovery?
    • I still love funk, after years of ignoring it. Also, I really want to expand my blues collection.  
  • What was your favorite film of this year?
  • What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
    • Flew home to Atlanta, ate at the Red Lobster with the family and opened gifts at Mom & Dad’s, then beers and Wii karaoke with my sisters and brother-in-law until the wee hours.  
    • 32 years old
  • What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
    • If I had spent more time on me, and less time on drama with the ex and health problems.
  • How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2008?
    • Cute structured-but-flowy dresses, tights, blazers, ballet flats, yoga pants, and incorporating color into my usually black and gray wardrobe.
  • What kept you sane?
    • Bourbon and BC
    • Lots of time on the couch or in bed with good books 
  • Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
    • Barack Obama
  • What political issue stirred you the most?
    • Electing the above public figure  
  • Who did you miss?
    • Oddly, my DC ex occassionally (that took two years)
    • My family
  • Who was the best new person you met?
    • My tough guy ex-Marine co-worker who talked me down after the end of the engagement
    • My current boss, who I shared wine with at a summer conference 
  • Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2008:
    • You only get one shot, so you better take care of you in this life. It’s no one else’s job. 
  • Quote a song lyric that sums up your year: 
    • “I guess I just lost my husband
      I don’t know where he went
      So I’m gonna drink my money
      I’m not gonna pay his rent (nope).”  “So What” – Pink

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